So after twelve minutes of effort (yes, I timed it) my sink has improved, not quite to fly lady shiny sink standards, but better, and the dishwasher is running.
And so start the tears. Is this me, that I'm just "lazy" or "selfish" that I don't just pitch in? What is HE doing to maintain our marriage and our home. What kind of mom am I that I allow our kids to be in the middle of this? Burning questions that I wish I had answers to.
"What is HE doing to maintain our marriage and our home"
ReplyDeleteHave you asked him this??? Maybe when he starts playing the I-never-get-enough-attention-from-you card, ask him that very question ;)
*HUGS* What Courtney said. On a brighter note- YOU DID GOOD GIRL! I'd invite you over for some frozen yogurt, but it's quite a drive... *HUGS*
ReplyDeleteI don't know what to say other than that I am sorry and hope that things soon improve. Hang in there!!!!!
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ReplyDeleteI hope things get easier for you soon!!
I agree with Courtney. Ask him what HE is doing to maintain the marriage & the home.
ReplyDeleteThen just try to listen to his answer completley before responding.
I KNOW that can be difficult to do sometimes.
Good luck & big (((HUGS))) comming your way.
more hugs for you girl!
ReplyDeleteHUGS to you. I wish I had more advice for you or a magic pill to make it better, but I don't. I'll listen if you need me to though!
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