Wednesday, February 15, 2006

And then...



So after twelve minutes of effort (yes, I timed it) my sink has improved, not quite to fly lady shiny sink standards, but better, and the dishwasher is running.

And so start the tears. Is this me, that I'm just "lazy" or "selfish" that I don't just pitch in? What is HE doing to maintain our marriage and our home. What kind of mom am I that I allow our kids to be in the middle of this? Burning questions that I wish I had answers to.

7 comments:

Courtney said...

"What is HE doing to maintain our marriage and our home"

Have you asked him this??? Maybe when he starts playing the I-never-get-enough-attention-from-you card, ask him that very question ;)

FrogLegs said...

*HUGS* What Courtney said. On a brighter note- YOU DID GOOD GIRL! I'd invite you over for some frozen yogurt, but it's quite a drive... *HUGS*

Robin said...

I don't know what to say other than that I am sorry and hope that things soon improve. Hang in there!!!!!

Julie said...

{{Hugs}}

I hope things get easier for you soon!!

Mary said...

I agree with Courtney. Ask him what HE is doing to maintain the marriage & the home.

Then just try to listen to his answer completley before responding.

I KNOW that can be difficult to do sometimes.

Good luck & big (((HUGS))) comming your way.

Julie said...

more hugs for you girl!

Jill said...

HUGS to you. I wish I had more advice for you or a magic pill to make it better, but I don't. I'll listen if you need me to though!